Anyone who's been married knows that marriage can be difficult even on the best of days... Add cultural differences and language barriers and you might have a recipe for disaster or a match made in heaven. In this episode of ¡Oye! we hear from a few brave non Latino boys who chose to marry Latinas, and got their families as a bonus.
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White people literally have no culture, no talent, no creativity. They are basic. All these self hating latinos in the comments don't realize how special they are. They sell themselves out to white people due to money, but white people got their money from the forced free labor of Africans, and by committing genocide on Mexican people to steal their land. Only the lowest of the low of the latinos would join with a white man knowing that.
I'm latina and I studied a course 5 years ago in the states and I ended my career in the states then I met a guy and we fall in love and we started dating then I started working at a hospital and after 2 years we got married in our 4th year I got pregnant and he is the best he helps me with the kids cuz doctors are 24/7 at hospitals and he knows that i would never leave me job he understands me he is my "media naranja"
This comment section reveals the weird white worship a lot of latinos are brainwashed into. These people are sick in the head. Meanwhile, the gringos are putting their kids in cages at the border, selling them into sex traffficking, killing them, and raping them. They're naive.
Latinas are becoming just like black men who throw their race of women under a bus and espouse their love for white women all over Youtube and the world. It's truly sad, pathetic and reeks for inferiority complex.
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It doesn't matter if they're black white Chinese whatever there's a lot of Chicanos / Latinos that marry Latinas and those guys are idiots that's how cool you are that's all that matters that Mary the Latina
Yessica Gonzales Of course you do. I've met so many latinas who cheat on their husbands or boyfriends with gringos. I was shocked to find out how many were dating guys from Nazi Lowriders too back in So Cal
This is so ignorant latina/Hispanic all have European white in them already when most all Hispanics take a Dna test they find out they are usually at least half white Hispanic are already mixed with white and if the woman is a Latin American or grew up In usa than she is American in culture so really the American guy and the latina American are from the Same culture the usa culture
The American wars are like the blue prince of the Latins. The one who says she does not fool herself.
Los gueros estadounidenses son como el príncipe azul de las latinas. La que diga que no se engaña a si misma.
I use to hate white ppl in the 70s maybe where I was raised or the ppl I use to hang around with back then you just dated your own race , but then I fell in love with a white boy , we been married for 35 yrs
I am Puerto Rican /Nicaraguan (even though my dad is a Puerto Rican with blue eyes and who is white and tall) my mother is tan dark eyes ) I personally like white men even though myself I am white and I am currently dating an Australian man and we been together for 3 beautiful years ❤
I dated Hispanic men but most were players. So I switched my view to asian and white men. Men from both races were attentive, sweet, kind, laid back and understanding. I married a white man been together for 12 years. if I wouldn't have married a white man I think an Asian man would have definitely taken my heart.
Funny you call him that, and there's countless videos of Hispanic women espousing their love for white men and throwing Hispanic men under the bus, and not a single video of Hispanic espousing their love for white women or throwing Hispanic women under the bus. It's you Hispanic women who are the traitors, who throw your own race under the bus and treat your own race of men like shit. You're just like the black men who throw black women under the bus and make countless videos espousing their love for white women all over Youtube.
Well, you are right. I hardly know any Spanish people. I do speak Spanish although I would not claim to be bilingual and I need to practice speaking with native speakers. All the videos I have seen are by and for young people and I will shortly turn 70 so that really disqualifies me for dating any young woman.
You must not know any spanish people. My friends that are spanish are in my opinion far more hospitable than white people. Go to a spanish party once I guarantee you will feel like a part of the family within the first half hour
+M Simpson He's just mad because his "machismo attitude" doesnt work and the latinas dropped him for a real man that knows how to be a gentleman. Treat them like a queen and you'll be rewarded like a king ;)
is there not machismo in latin culture? as a man, machismo is a pissing contest. I date latinas because I find them gorgeous. You can have my blond hair blue eyed girls.. let me have your girls and we can fuck eachother until we look filipino
I am Italian-American. I married a Puerto Rican woman because she threatened to kill me if I didn't. Forty years, two good kids, and five beautiful grandchildren later, we are still together. When we were first married she told me that she would never divorce me. However, if I stepped out of line, she might kill me. I still believe her. By the way, I speak both Italian and Spanish pretty well. The only thing is I still speak Spanish with an Italian accent. I am a lucky man. Terrified, but lucky.
Puerto rican girls are like that, you should put her in check, if you never did in your whole relationship, I'm very positive you got cheated on one time or another, maybe with her coworker or someone she met online, but you gotta have the balls in a Latin relationship, she may tell you she's been loyal but I'm sure she got some on the side, when she was younger, real talk!
+LoL ReplayBaby Not really in modern day usage Hispanic means "relating to Spain" The majority of Latin American countries are considered as Hispanic countries due to Spain's involvement & because the majority have kept it's language and culture. Although not everyone is full Spanish in modern day usage they're called Hispanic
Lol.....not all because me for instance I would consider myself an olive complexion. Here in nyc most people consider me as a semi light skin native American complexion or a cicilian of Italian descent. Jjjjj
I can see a racist issue in this video: a latino is serving beers to the gringos, while they talk about their marriages with latinas. This is certainly offensive; gringos taking latinas as wives, and latinos as slaves...? RACISM!!!I dont really care if gringos take white latinas as wives. Just dont take brown mexicanas or native-american women please; we want to preserve our race features, both natives and mestizos
Yeah, ese. We mexicans only ask that homogéneos races, in this case gringos, allow us to preserve our racial features ( mestizo ).
If mexicanas want to satisfy their curiosity with gringos, doesnt mean they want white babies
+frido mexin yo estoy orgullosa de mi raza aunq yo tengo una mezcla un poco diferente en si si vez a mi esposo y a mí te apuesto a q no sabrías quien de los dos es el latino. Y si tu eres mestizo quiere decir q ya tu raza se mezcló así q no se a q le tiras
Oh, look! More stereotypes and fetishizing of Hispanic women. You know what the key to a successful marriage to a Latina is? These same thing it is for marriage with women from any other culture, race, or ethnicity. Respect, communication, affection, etc...
Yes the gringos are amazing people. They rape latina women, they make them sleep on the floor, and let the dogs sleep on the bed! It's so great. And the gringos are even putting latino kids in cages at the border now! Fantastico!
Diana Amaya im not saying you are. i just cant stand the machismo and latin pride bs. Alot of hispanics come from crappy countries. Why dont they do everyone a favor and go back instead of making everyones life miserable. ms13 and other gangmembers are cowards who got beat up in school so now theyre tough. you notice white men mostly marry asian women because theyre considered more civilized. the irony is a white guy in united states rather marry a philiphino in a hut in a slum that can cook and is respectful. He wouldnt marry a latin woman from america because american women of all shades tend to be fat lazy ungrateful aggressive retards. Women from third world countries make AMERICAN NATIVES I.E WHATEVER COLOR WHETHER THEYRE WHITE, BROWN BLACK YELLOW RED ARE ALL GROSS OR ATLEAST MOST ARE!!! Umfortunately latina women are brainwashed to be little brainless housewives. And if a gringo does date them, they turn into feminazi dykes
Many latins are white and have Europeans ancestry so no big deal this is just a crazy topic the English royalty sent there princess to marry Spanish royalty and visa versa so English and Spanish have been mixing for thousands of years before they ever came to the Americas.
+Ricardo Gonzales Two whole different races from each other. When you refer to people that are Spanish, You are referring to people from SPAIN. As in the EUROPEAN country. When we refer to Latinas we are speaking about women who are Native South Americans mixed with a minute amount of European.
There is really no big difference between American Europeans and latin Europeans, northern and southern Europeans have been mixing for thousands of years before they came to the Americas. If you find an attractive, nice, genuine person good for you.
Latina women have an easy life here in the U.S. As long as they can get pregnant by multiple men and the welfare system is here, then they are set for life. I heard they are great in bed. Well no surprise there bec. they get a lot of practice from their fathers at a very young age. LOL
Thats the problem. If you marry one from their motherland...drama. If you marry one from the U.S....no sex, ladies night out and divorce to have her take the house you worked for. There is nothing in marriage for men.
+Turkey bacon584 Statistics can be faulty.So saying something is the truth because of statistics,makes no sense.Stats can be altered to fit a certain bias .They do it all the time.Just because it's on the internet,dosent mean it's true.Im a neuroscience major who took upper level stats course and it's such a fault math course cause it can be so easily manipulated to fit a certain agenda,that the researcher has.
so true, I like to see Latinas dating any other races except mayates, they not humans to me. I have family members who are married with Whites, Asians and Im the only one with a Arab women..One of my cousins just married a BLK women but I'll give her a pass, los hombres morenos son Lazy
The worst combination that one could ever pair is a latina(I'm tlking about one that directly comes from a latin-american contry!)and a gringo man(United States/Canada)...I've met so many latin-american women who confess to me with tears in their eyes that marrying their gringo husbands was the worst mistake that they ever made!!!Gringo men are tasteless,can't dance!,can't speak spanish worth a sh-t either!!!Ain't nothing like the charm of a hispanic man...white american women love them and who could think of it the other way around???...
+Hanan Kuehnle I don't care if my man can dance or not... but I find americans are not very family oriented, and they have a hard time understanding the bond between a latino man and women and their family.
+Jerry Zelda Oye huevon!!!Vete a la mierda tu!!!Tu no estas hablando a un gringo para nada!!!Pucha,yo soy medio Perucho por mis seis años de resedencia en el Peru!!!Ayyyyy hay que conocerme...y veras como soy yo con mi habilidad en hablando yo!!!Bueno,queria decirte todo eso y creame....lo hablo bien yo!!!...
That's not true bro. I'm Colombian and I've dated Asian, white, middle eastern and they were all typical girl types. I hardly ever see Latina women with white men unless they are older usually. I'm tall, go to the gym etc I have no problem with women. I think the short Mexicans probably date unwanted white women, because I get a lot of death stares from white dudes and black dudes when I date their women and they look good
+Rogelio Estrada Yes you are correct, but its clear the reason you are so upset is not over quantity but rather the quality of Latinas that date white guys compared to the type of white women (unwanted) that date interracially. Same reason black men get so pissed, they date more white women but when a black girl dates a white guy she the cream of the crop. Sad but true
+joey mercado well that depends, some latin dudes prefer white women as wifes cuz they are less demanding ( at least in my experience ) when u marry none white women u not only marry the chich but her whole family as well and that can be a real pain in the ass as she is more likely to do what her family says and are less free and independent than white women
Porque siempre hablan como si a todas las latinas nos gusta bailar ritmos tropicales. Yo los detesto y soy latina. Odio a la gente que dice "oh!, debes cocinar y bailar bien". Por favor!, somos todos de la misma especie pero no con las mismas caracteristicas. Por lo general los blancos creo que les gusta bailar salsa mas que a los latinos porque solo los veo con chicas que gustan de eso y/o tienen familias muy tradicionales.
+larroyo 1973 Bueno, en mi casa, todos cocinamos. Mi esposo cocina riquisimo y es latino y yo soy latina y tambien cocino. El cocinar debe ser un gesto de amor y no una imposicion. Es terrible que te torturen tu vida entera para que hagas algo que no te agrada y que no es necesario. Yo con que coman sano y bien, ando bien con mi conciencia porque ese si me parece que es mi obligacion como madre. Hay muchos latinos que sufren de diabetes y/u obesidad debido a los malos habitos. No me considero feminista pero si te respondo asi es porque me parecio un poquito machista tu comentario. Espero equivocarme.
Lo que pasa es que el femenismo y cultura liberal ha marginago el home anglosajón y las anglosajonas han sido adoctrinados a no respetar al hombre blanco,no cocinarle,no querer darle hijos pero a la misma vez como hipocritas se doblan como camara barata para atras para morenos!
Las hispanas son mas tradicionales y pro familia. La familia cocina y no esa basura de "catering". My two cents.
+Tifa030303 Claro!. lo que pasa es que siempre que ves algo sobre latinos, le ponen salsa y eso me fastidia. Ya nos pusieron a todos en un saco. No todos lucimos igual. Mira a Sofia Vergara que se tiene que pintar el cabello de morena para ser aceptada porque no les entra en la cabecita que tienen, que hay tambien rubios en Sudamerica. Comparto tu manera de pensar. Yo tambien creo que ellos gustan de las latinas por ser mas amables
White men are super hott!!! I love them, and those pretty blue eyes always gets to me. Kinda to much info on the next thing, I say but white men that I been with all be having some big packages it's a blessing.
I love you so much thank you for this post and Latinas I love them with all my heart my one and only they are best inside and out also next part kinda dirty yet Latinas to me have the best booty and pu**y by far there gorgeous and I forever love Latinas
just pray u don't marry a latina who has nothing but bad intentions. it can turn into a disaster before you know it. it's best to stay away from the peasant types and find one who is educated. but any marriage is not immuned from the b.s. stay single and bang what u can when u can. if u can bang on a latina for awhile then that's great but watch out for ex jealous boyfriends.
Que tristesa me da Que algunas desde ustedes odien a su propia gente, el expresarse mal del hombre latino es igual que hablar pestes desde sus papas, hermanos, abuelos e hijos. No solo se les olvido el idioma espanol sino que tambien los valores y costumbres desde nuestra cultura para aprender frivolidades de una cultura vacia y carente de principios morales, quierance mas a ustedes mismas no se averguencen de sus raices y tengan mas respeto hacia su persona porque al hablar mal de su gente solo
Claudia, estoy de acuerdo con usted. Estas jjovenes deben ser chicanas, por eso ven a los gringos como algo mejor. Se les ha olvidado la riqueza de la cultura cristiana, que es precisamente lo que permitió a sus ancestros que llegaron a Usa, esforzarse y no aceptar la cultura torcida de los gringos, para con un trabajo muchas veces mal pagado, poder darles a estas jóvenes, una vida digna, estudios, carreras, valores, el propio ejemplo de esfuerzo y sacrificio, al pasar de clase baja a clase media, de una generación a otra.
Toda esa cultura gringa llena de falcefades ideológicas y científicas, les ha hecho creer que no hay que sentirse orgullosas de su identidad. El evolucionismo disfrazado de «evolucion», el ateísmo-practico propuesto como dejar de ser anticuado con una vida de devoción religiosa, que esta ligada a la buena moral.
Da gusto que haya mujeres como usted. Trascienda esos buenos valores a los suyos
Claudia Aguilar blah blah blah. and that's why I would never date a hispanic guy son igual de metiches y mitoteros. parecen viejas.. and that's why I married a white guy and have a beautiful mixed baby....
I am married to a white man but I wouldn't say I married him because he was white and I wouldn't say I don't like my Hispanic men I just fell in love with a white mans personality and his race was the last think on my mind. My husband is a whiteboy from the barrio, all his friends are Hispanic, he speaks Spanish loves Mexican music and food. He's a Hispanic trapped in a white mans body!
+Purple Freax Si eres una mexicana blanca, no tengo ningún inconveniente en que te cases con quien te pegue la gana. No asi, si eres mestiza (brown) o nativa americana
Casarse con otra raza homogénea que no sea mestizo o nativo americano, es equivalente a destruir tu apariencia racial. No sabes que apariencia tienen las personas que son hijos/as de una mexicana y un gringo; pues ya perdieron toda apariencia de mestizos, y ahora se ven como gringos/as
FemmeBleu I think you should check your hypersensitivity. We have a sitting president calling undocumented immigrants "illegals" and "breeders" but somehow a descriptive word is derogatory? Lmfao it's like when cis people say cis or terf is derogatory lmfaoo no it's literally descriptive
Well, none of you is a Latina because Latina/Latino/Latin it's only a language, the Latin language which the Romans,ancient Italians, imposed upon your step-parents, the Spaniards when the Romans colonized Spain and called it Hispania and remained there for more than 700 years. The Latins come from Italy and not from Spain and Latin America was called Amerique Latine by the French because of the Latin root of the languages spoken in that continent,namely French,Spanish and Portuguese. People who speak Latin derived languages: Italians, first and foremost, then French, Romanians,Portuguese and Spanish. Stop the lies of making Latino as it was a Race or Ethnicity when it is not. You are mostly Ibero-Indians (mestizo)
Sadly that's wherever I go I find you kkk trying to said derogatory comments about Latinos. You should be ashamed. I'm from Argentina and the population is 97% white and they embraced my family here when they moved here from Italy. On the 70s and I noticed that's you always wants to talk shit about us and gess what' we don't give a shit about you stupid Latino term that the U.S. Government put on us. If you so worry about the term go blame the government not us call us Hispanics or whatever but is sad to see that in Argentina all Italians, Germans,and all other European has been welcome and no one said anything and stop saying that' you are Italian because I been to Italy and Italians don't hate on us as much as you do so you are not real Italian you are just a disgrace to the Italian race. Do you think you family were welcome in the us when the first arrive?? In New York ? No they weren't white enough back then and now since you chase all the Irish girls back then you want to call you self white and hate on us . The US marines corps should know about you racist way so they can see what a disgrace you are. Once you join they teach that's you are no longer blue,black or yellow you are a marine corp. so I doubt that you ever where you should return that uniform the its original owner. Shame on you for hating on us take you Latino term and shove it up your ass we don't care call us Hispanics. And by the way you aren't Italian you look like a mutt. Real Italians don't look like you and I'm whiter then you by the way. :)
+m guaremate What happens is that Spanish-speaking people of the "Americas" have totally twisted the meaning of Latino/Latina and translated into a Race and Ethnic identifier for themselves only. The fact is that the French called that area of the "Americas" "Amerique Latine" because the French, the Spaniards and Portuguese colonizers spoke Latin-derived languages followed Roman Laws and were Christian Catholics. They inherited all this from the Romans who had colonized them centuries ago. Moreover, the French ,the Portuguese and the Spaniards wanted to distinguish themselves from the Northern " America",that is the United States which was Anglo-Saxon,English-speaking and Protestant.
As I said numerous time before this is why that part of this continent was called "Amerique Latine" that is Latin America or America Latina.Now you say that :
"You're talking culturally...not racially". To that I have to say that we don't identify according to cultures. We identify according to our races: White,Black, Asians, etc.etc. and not by cultures and the Latin culture or cultura latina is a complex of speaking a Latin Language, following Roman Laws and being Christian Catholics. In other words acting, behaving, having morals like an Italian, French, Romanian.However , I don't see that much Latin culture except for the language among the Spanish-speaking people of this continent.
In any case Latino/Latina cannot be used to identify oneself in the Census Bureau or any other legal document as if it meant a Race or Ethnicity. The way it is cannot be sustained that Hispanics in the absence of a common identifier picked up a term "Latino/Latina" and made it their own and being passed as if that's their race. Hey...what about the real Latins: Italians,French,Romanians, Portuguese and Spanish?
The Census Bureau identifies as Latinos (Latins) the following: All of the people in what is called now "Latin America" from Mexico down to Argentina then Puerto Rico and Dominican Republic then going back to Spain (Espana). The fact is that The Latins,( Latinos in Spanish), the Latin language and Latin Culture, none of this comes from Spain. It all comes from Italy, the Great Roman Country. The Romans colonized Spain and Portugal for more than 700 years and imposed their Latin language, Roman Laws and Christian Catholicism. I wrote to the U.S. census Bureau telling them to scrap this Latino claim by Hispanics because it's historically wrong. This is called misappropriation of identity. We all identify by Race. If Hispanics groups want to gang up together and be known as a group and not by Race than they can keep using :" Hispanics" which is not Race anyway. Or what they can do is this: They can look themselves in the mirrors and see what color they are and which way they like to go, White,Black,mestizo,mulatto,mulatta,Indio or whatever but NOT LATINO.
Italians, French, Romanians, Spaniards and Portuguese identify themselves as all other do by the Race which is White.Latino is just a reference to their shared culture and is almost never mentioned. Hispanics must cease and desist from downgrading the Great Language and culture of the Romans.
@Quiiquee85 that's buuuuull shit not all latinas loves latino men, i don't, i love gringos :3 they are sweet and funny they are always saying how gorgeous you are, never treat you like a maid or thing they own plus that way they have to try to speak spanish is lovely... i think a lot of latino men get used to how amazing latina girls are and sometimes they can't aprecciate it as good as gringos does, plus gringos are not macho man... if you ask me i've had the greatest relationships with gringos :3
Whats considered white has changed over time. Back in the days, it was northern europeans (like yourself). Italians and Greeks weren't considered white until modern-days, so now it's pretty much just europeans. We still distinguish between northern and southern europeans though, so some people might ask you your ancestry. Some mexicans and other latinos are white (spanish ancestry, i.e. Antonio Banderas, Enrique Iglesias). Others are mestizo (brown) and are considered not white.
Saben que es lo mas chistoso de todo????? Los Gringos se mueren por las Latinas... y las Latinas se mueren por los Latinos, asi de facil.... y es porque nosotros tenemos sabemos bailar.. haer reir alas mujeres... somos cariniosos... somos simpaticos... yo soy blanco pelo negro... pero tengo el tipo de los Colombianos... o Puerto Riquenios... que somos fisicamente parecidos a los arabes.. pero con sabor latino
From least greatest (10) to greatest greatest (1), the poems in this list are limited to ones originally written in the English language and which are under 50 lines, excluding poems like Homer’s Iliad and Edgar Allan Poe’s “Raven.” Each poem is followed by some brief analysis. Many good poems and poets had to be left off of this list. In the comments section below, feel free to make additions or construct your own lists. You can also submit analyses of classic poetry to [email protected] They will be considered for publication on this website.
10. “The Road Not Taken” by Robert Frost (1874-1963)
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.
Meaning of the Poem.
This poem deals with that big noble question of “How to make a difference in the world?” On first reading, it tells us that the choice one makes really does matter, ending: “I took the one less traveled by, / And that has made all the difference.”